How To Pick Up Strippers
My Secrets Of “Strip Club Seduction”
by Dean Cortez
I love going to strip clubs and picking up hot strippers. Actually, it’s a passion of mine…and also one of my “special skills.”
If you go in with the right attitude, and a few of the right lines and techniques…and then a game plan for getting her to meet you after her shift…strip clubs are amazing places to meet single women.
(Hey, they’ve also got SMOKING hot bodies, they’re sexually uninhibited, and they’re a blast to party with. What’s not to like about strippers?)
Just consider the logistics at your typical gentlemens club: you’re surrounded by young, beautiful, scantily-clad women. The booze is flowing, every element of the environment is designed for seduction — from the music, to the lighting — and every one of these hotties is eager to talk to YOU.
You don’t even need to bother with approaching, because it’s their JOB to approach and flirt with you!
However, most guys who venture inside strip clubs are content to be customers, forking over their cash for cock-teasing lap dances and superficial conversations with women who view them as human ATM machines.
The skilled pickup artist, however, views strip clubs as target-rich environments. These are also great places to become comfortable flirting with hot girls in “regular” settings.
Yes, It’s Possible To Learn How To Pick Up Strippers!
Now, are strippers simply trying to separate you from the contents of your wallet? Of course they are — at first. It’s their job. But you can use tactics to flip the script, cause them to stop perceiving you as a customer, and make them play YOUR game instead of playing theirs.
Put the right strip club tactics to work at your favorite strip clubs, and you can build connections, collect phone numbers, and set up dates that lead to sex — just as you would at a bar or anywhere else.
Strippers aren’t the unattainable, unaffordable goddesses that most guys assume they are. They’re just women. It all comes down to knowing how to break through their facade, connect with them on a real level, and get them to feel genuine curiosity and attraction.
Ten Tips For Seducing Strippers
Here are ten of my tips for picking up chicks at strip clubs:
1. Walk into the strip club with the right mindset: when you’ve got game, you know you’re way more interesting and confident than 99% of the customers who come to this place. Strippers spend most of their shift having tedious conversations with lame, predictable men. Once you’ve demonstrated otherwise, she’ll be pleasantly surprised to meet you.
2. Act like you are totally familiar with this environment. Never lurk or mill around as if you’re unsure of where to sit. Find a seat and settle in, preferably near a speaker. (I’ll explain why in a moment.) Do not sit on “pervert row” (this is what the girls call the seats in front of the stage.)
3. When a hot stripper approaches you, don’t let her sit on your lap. Make her sit beside you. (”Whoa, easy there! Have a seat next to me until we get to know each other a little better.”) Having a cocky, playful attitude goes a long way in the strip club. It conveys confidence and establishes that you understand her “game”-and aren’t going to follow her script.
Also, don’t agree if she immediately offers a dance. Pretend like you didn’t hear her correctly-act like you think she asked YOU to dance for HER.
Say something like, “Are you sure you can afford me? I charge $100 for three songs, and no touching below the belt.”
Get the stripper to sit down next to you, and ask her name. She’ll tell you her “dancer name.” (Mercedes, Porsche, Destiny, etc.) To this, give another playful response: “My dancer name is Hercules. I dance on Tuesdays and Thursdays at the club down the road. But I’ll tell you what if you tell me your real name, I’ll tell you mine. Just promise me you won’t stalk me or do anything weird.”
Say this playfully, and you’ll get the stripper to laugh and tell her your real name. Now you’re starting the interaction on a genuine level, and you’re breaking her out of her “work” mind frame. The girls at the strip clubs, like salesmen, have a canned “script” that they use on every customer; when you control the interaction instead of answering her questions, she is unable to use her script and has no choice but to be real with you.
Preferably you’ll be sitting with you stripper near a speaker (I suggested you choose this area to sit in), because now you can say “let’s move somewhere quieter, I want to be able to hear you.” This shows you value what she has to say, and gives it the feel like a “mini date”: you’re taking her somewhere, even if it’s just to the other side of the room. Physically leading a woman to another area is a great way to convey masculinity and confidence.
4. Keep your eyes off of her body and maintain eye contact. Never comment on how good she looks; if anything, call her “cute.”
“You’re cute, but I can tell there’s more to you than meets the eye. So tell me something about yourself that none of these customers would ever guess about you.” (Again, you’re framing yourself as not being a customer.)
5. Show respect for her hustle. Never refer to it as “stripping”; the term to use for her is “dancer.” Say (or imply) that you’ve dated dancers before and demonstrate familiarity with her profession. Then I’ll say, “It’s too bad I swore off dating dancers, because I can tell you and I would get along.” (If she asks you “why you don’t date dancers,” be vague-just tell her, “It’s a long story, I’ll tell you about it sometime.” Then ask her another question that prompts her to keep thinking and sharing.
Another good line to use on strippers: “I know you must have some funny stories from working here. My friend is a dancer in Las Vegas, and she told me some hilarious stories about the customers who come in these places.”
6. Befriend the staff at your favorite strip clubs: bouncers, coat check, bus boys, DJs, managers, the owner, etc. When you visit, staff members should know and greet you. This gives you high social value (or “social proof”) in the eyes of the dancers; again, you’re not a typical customer.
Befriending male staff members is easy: I’ll bring a can of Red Bull over to the doorman and say, “Here, I thought you could use this,” and give him the drink. Then tell him, “you must be the envy of all your friends-hanging out in a club full of beautiful, half-naked women every night and getting paid for it. By the way, my name’s Dean.”
Nine times out of ten, the doorman will proceed to tell you why working at a strip club is anything but exciting and glamorous. Have a few laughs with him; chat for a few minutes, then head back to your seat. He knows you now, and he’ll appreciate the gesture. Every time you return from now on, he’ll give you a warm welcome.
Befriending the manager or owner will give you even greater social proof. To do this, I’ll ask my waitress to point out the person who is running the place. Then I’ll walk up to the manager/owner, introduce myself, and tell them this is one of my favorite clubs. Then, I’ll say that I’m trying to find a good location for my buddy’s upcoming bachelor party and I think this place would be perfect. I’ll ask how much it would cost to reserve a VIP room and several dancers for a few hours.
(I never actually come back for any bachelor party; I just use this as an “ice breaker” to get to know the manager/owner. They’re happy to talk to me about this. When I return in the future, if they ever ask me about the bachelor party plans, I say with a smile, “well actually, it looks like we’ll be throwing him a divorce party pretty soon. Do you do those, too?”
7. Don’t forget, the strippers are there to make money. Go on slow nights when there aren’t a lot of customers vying for their attention. When you sit down with a girl and you’ve been chatting for a little while, it’s okay to buy a dance from her-but a minute or two into the song, tell her she can sit back down, and resume the conversation. (Again, always behave like a non-customer.)
8. During the conversation, apply the same tactics you would use on “regular chicks” at a bar or nightclubs. Use techniques like Cold Reads and Hypotheticals. Many examples of these are explained in the Secrets Of Strip Club Seduction book. At all times, you will control the direction of the conversation and keep taking it to a deeper level, instead of trying to fill the time with pointless small talk.
9. One of the most effective ways to bond with a stripper is to get her to reveal her hidden talent and or/ambition. They’ve all got one. Strippers are used to customers treating them like brainless sex objects, and deeply appreciate it when a guy recognizes them for being more than that. This conversational thread also gives you the opportunity to reveal YOUR talent/ambition to her. (To women, a guy with passion and ambition is often MORE attractive than the guy who already has a lot of money.)
10. Close the deal (get her digits, and make a plan to see her when she finishes her shift). As far as “closing” with the dancer you like, the “ Secrets Of Strip Club Seduction” program contains some very clever (and effective) methods for scoring her phone number and getting her to agree to meet you after her shift ends. (Special tactics are necessary here, because strippers normally have a tendency to be HUGE flakes.)
Meeting up with that same night needs to be your primary goal. This is why an essential part of banging girls you meet at strip clubs is knowing two or three “go-to” spots that are within easy driving distance of the club, where you can meet and chill with her when she gets off work.
Always “oversell” these places to her. Instead of asking her to meet you at a bar (which sounds boring and ordinary), tell her that the bar has “the most amazing appetizers” or “the most incredible jukebox” or that “your buddy Mike the bartender makes the best margaritas you’ve ever tasted.” This provides additional motivation and frames you as a guy who is “in the know” and is going to turn her onto something cool.
Flirting to Pick Up Strippers
Going to a strip club could be a lot of fun; however as the night comes to end most guys go home alone. To make the situation worse, some of these guys go home sexually frustrated too! Normally, guys are treated as customers by these strippers which mean that you have to spend money to pay the overpriced alcohol and lap dances. But if you know the art of flirting with strippers, then you can cut through all of these games (and expenses!) and seal the deal with a stripper when she is not on duty.
Strippers do not only sleep with filthy rich men, bad boys or famous guys because even an average Joe has the chance to get strip club sex. But in order to do this, you have to learn how to pick up club strippers by flirting with them and engage in smooth conversations. If you are able to do this, then you would no longer be treated as customer because you will get the stripper interested and attracted to you.
First thing that you need to do is to gauge on how you behave inside the strip club. Are you the typical customer who always go along with her suggestions, answering her endless (and sometimes non-sense) questions as she tries to drain the cash in your wallet? Or are you the kind of guy who projects a confident image whenever you talk to strippers and they do not see you as one of those guys whom they can get money from.
Confidence is very much important if you are inside a gentleman’s club. For instance, a stripper walks up on you and asks if you want to dance. If you have the confidence, well you can easily flip the question to make it look like she is the one who wants to dance with you. Then you can simply tease her that you can dance for her but for a fee- and add something like she cannot touch you below the belt. Whenever she asks you to do something for her, you should always find a way to turn the table. This is one of the most effective techniques of flirting inside a strip club.
Things To Remember About Strippers and Strip Clubs
You are not a customer.Your goal is not to be treated as one of the customers and of course to eventually get strip club sex (without paying anything!) If you know how to flirt with strippers, you will get her to reveal some information that she would not normally share with her customers. When you get her to share her goals, passions and interests with you, then you are slowly building a bond with her.
Convince yourself (and her) that you’ve got “the goods.” There is no need to do hard selling or act pushy and desperate. But if you believe otherwise, then it means that you need some tricks and techniques to get her interested in you. It is also very important to decide whether or not this particular stripper is worthy of you. You have to believe that not every woman deserves a guy like you.
Have the right mindset. It is a must to have the correct mindset when flirting with strip club dancers. You must keep in mind that these women are used to dealing with different types of customers. Confidence is a requirement to get the interest and attention of a real hot woman like the strip club dancers. You need to play it cool, be a little more laid back and there is no need to take all these things seriously. If you want to score a stripper in one night, you must be fun and playful.
How to Seduce and Date Strippers
Seducing and dating a stripper is quite difficult to accomplish. But the payoff is definitely worth it because it is part of every man’s dream to seduce and eventually date a stripper. To date a woman who is good at seducing man and knows what you want, it is a fantasy fulfilled for you.
But the biggest setback is that strippers do not date their customers. If you have attempted to ask a stripper out on a date, you might have been told about this. No matter how cool or how nice you are, these ladies simply do not date guys they met at work.
So have to learn the techniques how to seduce a stripper and be very irresistible to her too. To seduce someone who is an expert in seduction can be really challenging. She has heard almost every pickup line and has dealt with almost every type of guys. The real secret here is to be real and sincere and not just one of those psychopath stalkers that she has encountered. Here are some of the few things that you have to keep in mind if you really want to seduce and date a stripper.
Be Yourself. Do more you try to impress her with all your material possessions; then you are simply making yourself like a sugar daddy. She gets all the possible offers from guys every day. These guys are willing to spend money just to impress her. So why not try to be different? Instead of offering material possessions, you can offer her more time talking and lesser time spent on ogling. Maintain eye-to-eye contact whenever you talk to her. Simply show her that you are interested in her and you will be successful in making a connection with her pretty soon.
It’s just work, nothing personal. When you show her that you understand her job as a stripper, she will truly appreciate it. Being a stripper requires a lot of skills, not every woman has the ability to dance the way she does. She possesses good interpersonal skills too and not everyone is given the talent of seduction. You can show interest about her job by asking about her work for the day.
Be more than a customer. Normally, the strippers look at their customers as mere source of money and nothing more. You have to convince her that you are not interested in what she is offering her customers. You can do this by not buying lap dances or giving her money whenever she dances.
Bring her into your reality You can draw her into your reality and out of her world of fantasy. When you seduce a stripper you have to convince her that your reality is definitely much better than her fantasy. You can talk to her about possible business opportunities and about your real job too. You can ask her if she has ever thought about working on a real job. But do not be condescending, a little encouragement will suffice.
Learn The System For Scoring With Hot Strippers…Every Time!
These are just a few quick tips. The “ Secrets Of Strip Club Seduction” program is packed with techniques for forming fast connections with dancers and getting results. The program includes not only a book (written by some of the top pickup artists in the game), but also some incredible bonus products and even a video interview with a former strip club manager who ran some of the hottest spots in Las Vegas. He “pulls back the curtain” and reveals his personal insights on how to score with the strippers that most guys will only ever fantasize about.
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